so it has been a while since i've written on xanga, and there is a lot going on, yet more to work on. since i last wrote, some things have happened. i finally got over the guy i had been dating up in michigan. he and …

it's one of those things. i am the kind of person that, for better or for worse, is willing to give someone a second chance. if i'm not feeling them at first sight or on that first date, i want to at least give them a …

i was reading this list on msnbc.com of the top ten things men should never say to women. after that, i read the responses to the article. it kind of made me think of a societal phenomenon that i have noticed for a whi…

so it's been close to two months since moving back to michigan from cincinnati. i haven't done much socially, but i'm using "social life" as an incentive to make decent progress on the dissertation. i really like my jo…

you know, that sinking feeling when you see someone you've really been into canoodling with someone else. then when they really get into the pda, then you get another feeling, a feeling of a flattened hand swiftly co…